i guess...
Thursday, August 02, 2007
i guess:
being single is way much easier than being attached.
but when living life as a carefree single, there's always this bugging (not nagging) feeling that something's incomplete in life, about the need to belong, the feeling of belonging. what's missing is the sense of security. to be emotionally grounded.
i guess.
however, with emotional attachment... the grounded feeling taking root sometimes overwhelms. wholly and truly enveloping. not that it's bad, and neither is it good. it's just... that the heart sags with not knowing what the keeper of the heart is doing, or up to.
cant guess whether it's an absolute evil, or whether it's just ehm, i dunno.
relationships = highest of highs + lowest of lows + anything else in between
i guess!
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posted by dee3 @ 15:57,
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Of Being Single
Monday, January 02, 2006
the most frequent ‘advice’ given to someone single is “Go find yourself someone”. the ‘someone’ being men / women, boyfriend / girlfriend – depends solely on what gender you are.
most often than not, this ‘advice’ comes from someone who is in a relationship.
whether or not that someone truly cares about you, the advice just flies.
hurls.
in every direction.
at YOU.
ehmmm doesn’t that someone realise how hard it is to even find a significant other? regardless whether it is short-term or long-term, the effort taken is massive.
but let’s not talk about the commitment yet, ya?
the only point that i’m trying to make is, to even get to the LIKE stage is one big step to climb.
but that’s beyond the point.
what matters is to like someone enough, and for that someone to like you back.
to wanna give it a shot. a try. to see where it leads to.
the first step is trying to find THAT someone.
it’s not like that person can be found behind the door, underneath a rock, in a room.
until that someone is found, what else can one do but wait?
time will tell.
will it?
most often than not, this ‘advice’ comes from someone who is in a relationship.
whether or not that someone truly cares about you, the advice just flies.
hurls.
in every direction.
at YOU.
ehmmm doesn’t that someone realise how hard it is to even find a significant other? regardless whether it is short-term or long-term, the effort taken is massive.
but let’s not talk about the commitment yet, ya?
the only point that i’m trying to make is, to even get to the LIKE stage is one big step to climb.
but that’s beyond the point.
what matters is to like someone enough, and for that someone to like you back.
to wanna give it a shot. a try. to see where it leads to.
the first step is trying to find THAT someone.
it’s not like that person can be found behind the door, underneath a rock, in a room.
until that someone is found, what else can one do but wait?
time will tell.
will it?
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posted by dee3 @ 18:04,
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.... (four dots)
Thursday, December 22, 2005
if i were to say that i miss u
what would you do?
if i were to admit that you’re still on my mind
what would it come to?
if thoughts turn
to memories past
to times shared
to moments lost, lost in time
of promises made, but never kept
of emotions felt and scrambled thoughts
where longing lurks
and yearning once were
then where do i stand?
what do i do?
the past is best left behind
in the dark, without light
where dim sparks are few
to remind us of the hopes that seems like dew
feelings…
fleeting
but overwhelming… when it is true
seems so much like the morning dew
I DO.
MISS YOU.
OF TIMES SPENT IN THE PAST,
WITH YOU.
what would you do?
if i were to admit that you’re still on my mind
what would it come to?
if thoughts turn
to memories past
to times shared
to moments lost, lost in time
of promises made, but never kept
of emotions felt and scrambled thoughts
where longing lurks
and yearning once were
then where do i stand?
what do i do?
the past is best left behind
in the dark, without light
where dim sparks are few
to remind us of the hopes that seems like dew
feelings…
fleeting
but overwhelming… when it is true
seems so much like the morning dew
I DO.
MISS YOU.
OF TIMES SPENT IN THE PAST,
WITH YOU.
221205, 0010 hrs -#-
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posted by dee3 @ 21:24,
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madness...
Sunday, December 18, 2005
It is madness
To hate all roses
Because you got scratched with one thorn…
To give up on your dreams
Because one didn’t come true…
To lose faith and prayers
Because one was not answered…
To give up on your efforts
Because one of them failed…
To condemn all your friends
Because one betrayed you…
Not to believe in love
Because someone was unfaithful or didn’t love you back…
To throw away all your chances to be happy
Because you did not succeed on the first attempt…
I hope that as you go on your way
You don’t give in to madness
Remembering always…
Another chance may come up
Another friend
A new love
A renewed strength
Be persistent
Look for happiness in every day
The sure path of failure is to give up!
It is often through failure that success come – KEEP TRYING! God bless ya…
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quoted from a powerpoint presentation file, author anon.
next posting: of New Year & Resolution
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posted by dee3 @ 00:15,
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