Of Being Single
Monday, January 02, 2006
the most frequent ‘advice’ given to someone single is “Go find yourself someone”. the ‘someone’ being men / women, boyfriend / girlfriend – depends solely on what gender you are.
most often than not, this ‘advice’ comes from someone who is in a relationship.
whether or not that someone truly cares about you, the advice just flies.
hurls.
in every direction.
at YOU.
ehmmm doesn’t that someone realise how hard it is to even find a significant other? regardless whether it is short-term or long-term, the effort taken is massive.
but let’s not talk about the commitment yet, ya?
the only point that i’m trying to make is, to even get to the LIKE stage is one big step to climb.
but that’s beyond the point.
what matters is to like someone enough, and for that someone to like you back.
to wanna give it a shot. a try. to see where it leads to.
the first step is trying to find THAT someone.
it’s not like that person can be found behind the door, underneath a rock, in a room.
until that someone is found, what else can one do but wait?
time will tell.
will it?
most often than not, this ‘advice’ comes from someone who is in a relationship.
whether or not that someone truly cares about you, the advice just flies.
hurls.
in every direction.
at YOU.
ehmmm doesn’t that someone realise how hard it is to even find a significant other? regardless whether it is short-term or long-term, the effort taken is massive.
but let’s not talk about the commitment yet, ya?
the only point that i’m trying to make is, to even get to the LIKE stage is one big step to climb.
but that’s beyond the point.
what matters is to like someone enough, and for that someone to like you back.
to wanna give it a shot. a try. to see where it leads to.
the first step is trying to find THAT someone.
it’s not like that person can be found behind the door, underneath a rock, in a room.
until that someone is found, what else can one do but wait?
time will tell.
will it?
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posted by dee3 @ 18:04,
